(Source: occasionally-conscious)


GIRLS — if you hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, or control your boyfriends, you are the abuser. You are not a “strong woman”, “empowered”, or anything similar. You are hurting him. Even if his muscles are strong enough to take it, a hit or slap from someone you love is an emotional blow.

Written by a girl who’d never hit a guy.


im still in between kinda accepting my body and wanting to starve myself for weeks i dont know 


not texting back is only okay when I do it


Lieke van Houten